How Can I Get My Adult Male Cat to Be Gentle & Not Hurt My Small Female Kitten?

Introducing a new female kitten to your adult male cat should be a gradual process, according to Cornell University College of Veterinary Medicine. However, it's not too late to reintroduce the kitten and cat and let them get to know each other on even footing. Cats that show aggression should not be physically punished as it may increase the cat's emotional distress and cause further aggressive acts.

Things You'll Need

  • Closed room to separate the cats
  • Large pet carriers
  • Cat treats
  • Jar or can filled with pennies
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Instructions

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      Place the kitten in a separate room. This allows the older male cat to feel safe in his environment while adjusting to the presence of the kitten. The cats may sniff each other through the bottom of the door.

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      Switch the cat's placement. After a few days of the kitten staying in a closed room, switch the cats. This allows several days for the kitten to get used to her new surroundings and the adult cat can adjust to the kitten's scent without feeling threatened.

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      Place each cat in their own, separate pet carrier. The carriers can be positioned far enough apart so that the cats can see each other but feel safe and relaxed. Both cats can be given treats so they have a positive association about being near each other.

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      Release the cats from their carriers for short periods of time as long as they seem relaxed and show no signs of aggression. Keep the cats at a distance and watch them for hissing or growling. Slow the process if one of them seems anxious.

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      Monitor the cat's behavior. Reward the adult male cat's non-aggressive behavior with treats. Distract the adult cat by shaking a can of pennies if he does show aggressive behavior.