How to Help a Shy Cat

Cats may be shy for a variety of reasons. But in many cases the cat wasn't socialized with humans as a kitten or it has been the victim of aggressive human behavior. A shy cat needs to feel safe in its environment before becoming comfortable around humans.

Things You'll Need

  • Ribbon
  • String
  • Other toys
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Instructions

    • 1

      Maintain a calm voice and refrain from making sudden or loud noises around the cat. A shy cat not feel safe in its environment if there are sudden, unfamiliar noises.

    • 2
      Any space big enough may become an ideal hiding spot.

      Make sure the cat has access to a safe hiding place, such as under furniture or inside a cabinet.

    • 3

      Refrain from looking into the shy cat's eyes. Predators hunt down their prey and tend to lock eyes; locking eyes with the shy cat could make it feel threatened. If you do make eye contact, the New York City Feral Cat Initiative suggests slowly closing your eyes or blinking.

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      Sit near the cat's food dish while it's eating. Slowly reach out your hand and gently stroke and pet the cat from behind.

    • 5
      A ball of yarn may encourage your cat to play.

      Encourage your cat to play with ribbons or feather toys. Try holding onto one end of a long ribbon or string toy and gently toss it near your cat, pulling it slowly toward you.

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      Don't grab the shy cat from above -- bend down to its level. Approaching from above is another predatory move that may make your cat feel threatened.