Instructions
Start by petting your cat in places that most cats like to be petted, always petting in the direction that the fur grows. Generally, cats enjoy being petted on the sides of their face, on the top of their heads and between their eyes. It's thought that they like this because there is a scent glad located in these spots, and being petted there allows them to deposit their scent on us.
Experiment with other areas your cat might like to be petted. Some cats like to be scratched right at the base of their tail where it joins the back. A good scratch under the chin may be just what makes your feline friend purr. Hold out your hand and you may find your cat will position himself so that the place he enjoys being petted is under your hand.
Be aware of areas of its body where your cat does not like to be petted. A lot of cats do not like to have their stomachs and feet touched, and doing so might get you a good scratch or bite as a deterrent not to try that again.
Follow your cat if they seem to be trying to steer you to a certain place. Some cats like to be petted in certain areas of the home over others. This is called leading behavior, and it isn't clear why they do it. Whatever your cat enjoys, giving them lots of love and attention through petting will make for a happier cat and a happier owner.
How to Pet a Cat
Petting a cat is not only pleasurable and beneficial for the cat, but numerous studies have proven that it's good for the person who's doing the petting too. Both parties reap the benefits of lower blood pressure and stress reduction. Each cat has it's own preferences in where and how they like to be petted, so watch for cues that they like what you're doing.