How to Tame an Uncontrollable Cat

Cats have minds of their own and tend to lead independent lives. Some occasionally go beyond independence and develop uncontrollable behavior. Past neglect and abuse can make cats fearful or aggressive toward people and other pets in their new homes. A cat that scratches and bites its owner is a major household problem. You can tame the cat if you are willing to devote a great deal of time and patience to form a trusting bond with an animal that is likely scared and overstimulated.

Things You'll Need

  • Cage or carrier
  • Food and water bowls
  • Cat treats
  • Old blanket or shirt
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Instructions

    • 1

      Confine the cat to a cage or carrier for a few days. It must be big enough for bedding and a litter box. To get the cat used to you, give it an old shirt or blanket with your smell on it as bedding. Keep the cage in a room away from other pets and people. Visit the cat often and talk to it in a calm, soothing voice. Use slow, deliberate motions around the cat and don't attempt to handle it. The goal is to teach the cat to feel safe.

    • 2

      Remove the cat from the carrier, handling it with care. Place a thick towel over the cat and wrap it securely. Place the cat in your lap and pet it on the back of the head if it remains calm. Never put your hand in front of the cat's head because this can frighten it and leave you vulnerable to biting. Talk to the cat and reassure it. Hold the cat for only a few minutes the first time and give it a treat afterward. Gradually build up the amount of time you spend holding the cat.

    • 3

      Let the cat out in a small "cat-proofed" room after about a week. Make sure are no objects like cabinets that the cat can hide under or get into. Close the toilet lid if you're keeping the cat in a bathroom. Remove small items and plants. Put the cat's litter box, bed, food and water bowls and toys in the room, with the litter box as far as possible from the feeding and sleeping area. This will give the cat time to stretch its legs and a chance to learn the smells and surroundings of your home.

    • 4

      Socialize your cat with other pets and people. After the cat starts acting calmer, slowly introduce it to the rest of the family. Allow other human household members to handle the cat. Take care when allowing other pets around the cat. Keep the animals separate at first but let them smell and hear each other.

    • 5

      Gradually let the cat into the rest of your home. Start leaving the door to the cat's small room open and let it come out on its own. If it doesn't emerge, place its food dish and litter box outside the room. Continue to interact with the cat regularly, and learn to watch its body language so you know when it's becoming agitated. Learning what scares your cat and which situations make it act out in an uncontrollable manner will help you eliminate those stressors.