How to Prepare Your Cat for a Baby

If you are expecting a baby, you know your life is going to change drastically in a few short months--to some extent, it probably already has. But there is no reason for these changes to include getting rid of a beloved house cat, no matter what the old lady down the street keeps telling you. Cats and babies can, and do, co-exist peacefully and safely, and as your baby gets older, the cat may even become a source of enjoyment and wonder to him. With a little preparation, you can help your cat adjust to the arrival of the newest addition to the family.

Things You'll Need

  • Bite-size cat treats
  • CD of baby crying
  • Life-size baby doll
  • Baby powder or baby oil
  • Double-sided adhesive tape
  • Baby's blanket
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Instructions

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      Have your cat spayed or neutered, if you haven't already done so. Not only is this healthier for your cat, it can help prevent unsanitary or undesirable behavioral problems like urine spraying and nipping.

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      Begin gradually spending less time with your cat, especially if she has been the center of attention in the household. This sounds harsh, but it is necessary in order to prepare the cat for the fact that she is going to undergo a change in status. Do not ignore her, and don't treat her any less affectionately--just reduce the time you spend paying attention to her. If the mother-to-be has been the main caregiver for the cat, another household member can try to develop a deeper relationship with the cat to make the change less traumatic.

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      Play CDs of babies crying, and set up the baby monitor, crib and changing table in order to accustom your cat to infant-related noises and equipment. Offer treats, cuddles and play sessions with the introduction of each new sound or object, so your cat can form positive associations.

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      Trim your cat's nails.

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      Invite friends and relatives with babies to come visit in order to acclimate your cat further to infants. It's okay if your cat is shy, and dashes out of the room; she is still being exposed to the sounds and smells of babies in the house. Always give your cat treats and gentle praise during these visits.

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      Dust your skin with baby powder, or rub in baby oil, to give your cat a preview of the new smells that will soon suffuse the air.

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      Put double-sided adhesive tape on the baby's changing table and on the floor near the crib about a month before the baby is born to discourage the cat from jumping up. Discourage those impulsive flying leaps into your lap by putting double-sided tape on your slacks or skirt; after the cat lands on it a few times, she should avoid taped areas.

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      Swaddle a doll in a blanket and carry it from room to room, crooning at it and pretending to feed and change it. Let your cat see you doing this. You might feel ridiculous, but this dress rehearsal for having a baby in the house is probably the most important thing you can do to prepare your cat for the days ahead.

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      Take a blanket with the baby's scent into the house after the baby is born and let your cat sniff it. Praise her and give her a treat.

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      When you first bring the baby into the house, have someone take her into another room while you greet your cat warmly and give her a treat. Bring the baby back into the room, and invite the cat to sit near you as hold the baby.