Behavior Management for Dogs with Separation Anxiety

Most dog owners would tell you that their dog is like a member of their family. Although they walk on all fours and can̵7;t speak, dogs have many emotions that are similar to a human̵7;s. Just like people, dogs can get anxious and lonely. Separation anxiety is a common problem in many dogs, especially puppies and recently adopted dogs. They become agitated and upset when their owners leave them by themselves, and their behavior can turn destructive.

  1. Symptoms

    • Learn the symptoms of separation anxiety so you can start treating it immediately. Dogs with separation anxiety can start to get visibly nervous when they notice you are about to leave. They may start pacing or following you closely when they see you getting your keys out or putting your coat on. Your neighbors may complain of loud barking or whining while you are away from home. Dogs with separation anxiety can also become destructive. They will use their nervous energy to chew furniture and other valuables. They may also urinate and defecate in the house, even if they have been house broken.

    Crate Training

    • Try crate training your dog. Many experts and veterinarians highly recommend crate training. Some people think it seems cruel to put a dog in a small cage while they are away from home. However, most dogs think of their crate as a safe haven. Not only does crating your dog prevent it from being able to destroy things, it also will calm and soothe him. Dogs will instinctively seek out small, enclosed spaces to make them feel safe, like a den in the wild. The crate should be just large enough to comfortably fit his bed, but no larger. Fill it with a couple of his favorite toys and give him a treat when you put him in, so that he associates it with praise and rewards.

    Desensitization

    • Train your dog to become desensitized to your coming and going. When you leave the house, don̵7;t make a big deal of saying goodbye and giving the dog a lot of attention. Take the dog out and play with her a bit a while before you leave. In the half hour leading up to your departure, leave her alone. Slip out quietly. When you come home, don̵7;t greet your dog right away. This way, she won̵7;t have so much nervous energy when you come and go. You can also desensitize your dog by leaving for progressively longer amounts of time. At first, just go outside the house for a few minutes. Come back in without making a big deal of it. The next time, leave for a bit longer. The dog will realize that you always come back.

    Exercise

    • Give your dog plenty of exercise. Dogs that are tired out will be more likely to just nap while you are away. If a dog is full of energy, it will turn into nervous energy. Give your dog plenty of play and exercise every day.

    Medication

    • Consider medicating your dog. Although it is unnecessary in most cases, some dogs may have such a bad case of separation anxiety that they would benefit from calming medication. Dogs who have a history of past abuse may be more prone to anxiety. Also, some breeds are more prone to suffer from separation anxiety.