Instructions
Sit
Start with very basic commands such as "sit" and "stay," which are crucial for overall obedience.
Tell the puppy "sit," and push down on his rump to encourage the proper behavior.
Praise the puppy effusively when it sits down, saying things like "Good dog."
Repeat the command to sit, only praising when your puppy obeys.
Give your puppy occasional treats when it successfully sits when you tell it to sit. Avoid giving treats every time, focusing mainly on the verbal praise, so your dog will be more motivated by your happiness than by food.
Practice the "sit" command with a variety of distractions and loud noises around, making sure that your puppy stays focused on you and sits even when things are exciting.
Manners
Say a sharp "no!" if you see your puppy chewing on something undesirable, like the furniture or your favorite pair of shoes. Offer the puppy a toy instead and praise the puppy for chewing on the toy instead of the furniture.
Tell your puppy "no!" if he jumps up on you.
Ignore it if your puppy barks or whines for attention to avoid teaching her that making noise will make you pay attention.
Introduce your puppy to a variety of new people and dogs once he has had all his shots and vaccinations. Keep introductions quiet and calm so he learns not to get too hyped up when strangers come over, or when encountering unfamiliar dogs out on walks.
Remain consistent and make sure everyone agrees to and follows the rules regarding your new puppy. If you say the puppy can't be on the sofa but one person always lets him up, he will never learn that he is not allowed and will only get confused.
How to Get Puppies to Obey
Puppies learn their place in the world from mom, their litter mates and their owners. Because of their short attention spans, teaching young puppies can be difficult, but is necessary to successfully keep them as friends and companions. Most breeds of dog want only to please their owners, and will learn quickly as long as you are firm and consistent in your methods and expectations.