Instructions
Take your dog to the vet for a checkup. Oftentimes a quiet dog means a sick dog. There may be health problems that you are unaware of that are bothering your pet. A veterinarian can do a screening to look for anything that might be causing your dog to keep to himself. Let the vet know about your dog's shyness, and listen to any suggestions she might have. In serious cases, a veterinarian might even suggest an antidepressant to help your dog's behavior. This might be an option worth considering, but your dog will benefit more if you take the time to work with its behavior as well.
Be firm, confident and assured with your dog. This will show him that everything is alright. When you use a soft, soothing voice to try and put your dog at ease, you actually reinforce the scared behavior. To your dog, you are not just a caretaker; you are the alpha dog. Even domestic dogs recognize dominance and the hierarchy of power in their relationships, whether these be with other dogs or humans. Your dog bases his behavior on how you are interpreting situations.
Look locally for obedience classes to enroll in with your dog. Aside from learning to be more assertive, your dog will also learn other skills that boost his confidence if you respond encouragingly. Libraries and the Internet contain many helpful resources on dog training if you can't participate in a class with a professional. Both classes and personal training will further develop a trusting and healthy relationship between you and your dog. Offer ample praise when your dog learns new things and exhibits desired behaviors.
Socialize your dog to help him overcome fear. Through real or simulated social situations dogs learn the appropriate reactions to other dogs and people. The younger you can start socializing your dog the better, but socialization is an important step at any age. Enlist in the help of a friend; have her sit on the floor and put some treats in between her and your dog. The dog might be comfortable taking a treat from your friend if she doesn't look the dog in the eye or try to force contact. Always be relaxed and let the dog make the first move, praising him when he behaves positively. Watch for other socializing opportunities, like walks around the neighborhood.
How to Get Shy Dogs to Overcome Their Fear
Your dog might feel a little insecure sometimes and need some reassurance. A certain degree of shyness is normal, but when a dog is obviously nervous and uncomfortable, he may need some help building confidence. As a loving master, you can move your dog in the right direction. With some love and time, you can help your bashful pup come out of his shell to become more social and relaxed.