How to Get a Dog to Come to You When Scared

A fearful dog may cower and refuse to have anything to do with you. Fear can be a powerful emotion. As a pack species, dogs stick to the familiar. They thrive on a daily routine. Patience and the right techniques are required in order to get a fearful dog to let down her guard.

  1. Stick to a Routine

    • Stick to a daily routine so your dog knows what to expect. If something in your energy at home has changed, your dog may change as well -- she may stick to herself and begin to be fearful of you. Life changes, such as bringing home a baby or moving in with a new partner, could bring on a change in your dog's demeanor.

    Practice Patience

    • Give a fearful or timid dog time and space. If you are meeting a new dog for the first time and considering bringing him into your home as a new member of the family, do not force him into new situations before he is ready and comfortable. Patience, gentleness and a calm demeanor are necessary for getting a fearful dog to trust you. When he trusts you, he will be more likely to come to you. Use a soft, comforting tone of voice.

    Treats

    • Offer treats when the dog appears relaxed. Stay at a distance of at least a few feet before getting closer to the dog. Offer the treat to him and allow him to come when he is ready. Do not make the fatal mistake of cornering a dog. This will only make him feel threatened and put him into fight-or-flight mode. Being cornered could cause the dog to bite or run off, distrusting you for cornering him. Encourage the dog to take the treat right out of your hand. Talk to him in a gentle tone while he eats and tell him what a good dog he is.

    Accept Certain Temperaments

    • Accept that some dogs are timid by nature. While many dogs may warm up to a caretaker with time and patience, some dogs may be naturally timid for life. Their timid nature may be a result of their temperament or it may be due to early life experiences as a puppy that were less than positive. A dog's early life experiences set the groundwork for how he views people and responds to various situations.