How to Handle an Overly Jealous Dog

Dogs can be loyal, loving and integral parts of people's lives, thought by many to be a real member of the family. Just like other members of the family, jealousy can be an issue for your dog, particularly when introducing another dog to the family. Scientists have confirmed what many believe; canines, just like humans, experience a wide range of emotions including pride, envy, embarrassment and intense jealousy. This jealousy is particularly strong when it sees its owner giving affection to another dog. With some patience and a lot of treats, you can train your dog to behave calmly and understand it is still loved even with the addition of another dog to the family.

Things You'll Need

  • Dog treats
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Instructions

    • 1

      Have both dogs sit and relax away from each other. The dogs will need to be in close proximity, like in the same room, but not side by side.

    • 2

      Ask the jealous dog to stay. Give it a treat. Walk over to the other dog, then hug and pet it. Follow this by giving the jealous dog another treat. Hug and pet the jealous dog after you have given it the treat.

    • 3

      Repeat this exercise about four to five times the first day. Select random times to repeat the exercise over the next week. Increase the time spent petting the non-jealous dog before you go back to the jealous dog each time you repeat the exercise. The jealous dog should be a little more relaxed by the time the week is over.

    • 4

      Repeat the same exercise for another week but decrease the space between the dogs. If the dogs started on opposite ends of the room, move each them closer to the middle each time you perform the exercise. If either of the dogs become agitated or uncomfortable, move them farther apart and progress slower.

    • 5

      Spread your attention between both dogs when they approach you. When the non-jealous dog wants to be touched, pet it. When the jealous dog approaches in a non-threatening way, switch your attention to it. Go back and forth between the dogs, spreading your attention between the two of them. Give the jealous dog attention when the other dog receives it; this lets the jealous dog know that it gets affection when the non-jealous dog is present.