How to Bond With a Horse That Is Strange to You?

Horses and their riders form a partnership that depends on communication and trust. The best riding teams are those that work together flawlessly, with the rider and horse in tune with one another and responsive to cues and signals. When you first meet a new horse, it is important to immediately begin to establish a friendly, respectful relationship with it so that you can build the trust you will need to become a successful team.

Things You'll Need

  • Grooming tools
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Instructions

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      Approach the horse slowly with a relaxed demeanor. Hold out your hand and talk softly. Allow the horse to sniff you as you approach. Watch his body language to make sure he stays friendly and relaxed. The horse's ears should be facing forward or sideways, not laid back. Once the horse has finished sniffing you, pet it.

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      Brush and curry your horse all over its body, paying special attention to any spots the horse appears to find more enjoyable than other. You will know you have found a favorite scratching spot when the horse leans into the grooming tools.

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      Perform basic groundwork exercises including longing in the round pen and leading your horse through obstacles. Riding will also help improve and develop your bond. Make rides a pleasant and rewarding experience by praising your horse when it performs correctly.

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      Spend extra time with your horse and participate in feeding, watering, washing and leading it out to pasture. Such relaxing daily activities can help you develop a stronger bond with your horse.