Instructions
Separate the horse from the item that bothers it. If a jacket hanging on the fence is blowing in the wind, put it on or roll it into a ball and put it on the ground. If a barking dog is spooking the horse, kennel the dog or lead the horse to another location. If you can't separate the horse from the item frightening it, or can't find the item frightening it, immediately proceed to Step 2.
Talk to the horse in a soothing, calm tone. Call it by name and say things like, "Easy, girl. You're okay." The actual words are not as important as the calm and steady tone. Pretend you're speaking to a crying baby and you will have the right idea.
Approach the animal cautiously, using a slow but normal-looking walk. Keep talking to the horse as you move in its direction. Don't approach the horse from behind unless you have no other alternative. If you must come up to the horse from behind, speak to it constantly and put one hand on its hip as you draw near. This alerts the horse to your presence so it doesn't spook at the sound of your approach and kick or bite you.
Pet the horse with smooth, slow motions as you walk up to its head. Press down gently but firmly to give your touch a calming effect. Most horses have a favorite spot for a pat such as the forehead, withers or under the chin. If you know the horse's sweet spot, give it a good calming rub.
How to Calm Down a Horse
Horses are somewhat skittish by nature and many are easily spooked. An animal that size can be dangerous when frightened, particularly to a handler standing close by. Here are things you can do to calm down an upset horse and improve the safety of the situation.